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Sunday, September 05, 2010
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If you've lost a child - through your own abortion or someone you know - we're sorry for your loss. We invite you to dedicate your beloved unborn to our Heavenly Father. We believe that forgiveness is God's gift and that because He so loved the little children, that He allows them all to return Home.
A person does not have to be the parent of an unborn child to honor that child's life...by naming or by dedication. Abortion deeply affects more than just the mother.
Consider...
- A grandparent who talked, supported or drove their daughter to the abortion or may not even had known of their son/daughter's pregnancy.
- The dad whose wife/girlfriend chose abortion against his better judgement, consent or even without his knowledge.
- Children that were told their lives would be easier because a younger sibling was aborted.
- The friend who drove a woman to the clinic pregnant, and back home "un" pregnant.
- A family member, friend, counselor or clergy, who tried to talk a mother/father out of an abortion, and failed.
- The nurse, clinic worker or abortion doctor who later regrets their participation in taking the lives of the unborn
Thus some children listed may have been dedicated by their mothers, fathers, grandparents, siblings, cousins, aunt/uncles, friends, clergy etc. Individuals, much like those above, can and have received help, healing and hope through an abortion recovery program.
We believe that names for the unborn are given by God, as He personally carries His children home to Heaven. Many of the children honored here, had family members pray about what God had already named their babies prior to having them dedicated (the stories of how He shared those names are amazing)! Others chose to name the children themselves. Some picked nicknames or words of endearment!
It doesn't really matter "how" the names were conceived, or who did it.
What matters is that these unborn babies have had their lives confirmed and dedicated to our Heavenly Father.
God blesses those who welcome his children,
as the kingdom ultimately belongs to them!
-Matthew 9:14 & Mark 9:37
If you'd like to leave a dedication in honor of your unborn child, or a child lost in your family due to abortion, please feel free to do so. Simply scroll down past the dedications to the message box below. For some this might not be an easy step, for some it might be the first. If you need to speak with an Abortion Recovery Specialist, please feel free to call us.
NOTE: Email and city are optional fields. Neither will not show in your message.
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| Name: Kristin | Date: 8/5/2010 | My Dear Melody,
I miss you terribly.
I think about you every day.
I wonder what life would be like if you were here with me.
I know that you would be 11 years old now, and I wonder what you would look like and what your personality would be like.
I wonder how you would have changed my life.
You've changed my life already, even by not being here.
I am lonely.
I am sad.
I am isolated.
There is a big gaping hole in my life.
When I lost you, I lost myself, too.
I felt alone.
I felt scared.
I felt pressured.
I felt like a horrible person.
I felt selfish.
I felt Godless.
I felt ashamed.
I felt helpless.
I felt unworthy.
I am so sorry.
Sorry for my haste.
Sorry for my fear.
Sorry for never giving you a chance to become what you were meant to be.
You would have been perfect and I would have loved you.
Love,
Mommy |
| State: MD | | Country: United States |
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| Name: may | Date: 7/30/2010 | to my river,
you turned 2years old today.
i can still remember the day i was carrying you in my womb for almost 5months...same months of sleepless nights of crying in pain . everybody despised me,judged me.I didnt feel love and care from anyone even from your father whom i expected to be their..I would always talk to you and let you listen to the song your my honey bunch that one thing makes me smile..
emotions striked me,I didnt know where and whom to run. I was so alone,depressed..Until such time i had an impetuous abortion and didnt even care to hold you..
i felt so empty that day i thought my burden will lessen but i was so wrong i have to suffer..Up to this day i am so lost,alone,in pain,numb,in rage to everyone who left me...You took me away with you baby, everything in me is dead..
it shouldve been us...
I LOVE YOU very very very very much that no word can best explain the love i have for you,ure d only one that matters to me...I hope you will forgive me baby,never a day i missed wishing to be with you,hold you,hug you,see you smile,to hear you say mama i love you...
these tears will not cease from falling 'til the day iam with you..when that time comes i hope youre the first one ill get to reconcile with ... forever will i hold on to that hope....'til the day we meet again my love.. |
| State: bb | | Country: Philippines |
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| Name: Hurting:[ | Date: 7/30/2010 | To my precious son,
I cannot forgive myself for what i have done to you. i am so incredibly sorry for what i have done. i should have stayed stronger for you, and i will regret this decision for the rest of my life:,( yes, i can blame your dad for pushing me to do this, and go on and on about how much its "his" fault, but in the end, it was mine. I could have said no, and i didn't. and for that, i am so sorry.
I think about you all the time. what you would have looked like. I always thought you were going to be a boy, and you would have looked like your dad. if we agreed, i wanted to name you Bryson. You would have been beautiful, thats for sure.
Please don't be angry at your father, and help him heal. i know he hurts, even though he doesn't show it. i still love your dad very much even with everything that has happened between us, i still love him. And i know deep down that he loves you baby boy.
Please forgive us for our stupid mistake that we have made. i love you so very much and think about you every single day. you will always have a special place in my heart.
I love you,
love mom. |
| State: CA | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Melissa | Date: 7/30/2010 | Dearest Baby,
I am truly sorry for what I did to you a day ago. I made this decision on my own and now i am also suffering on my own. I regret what I did and now I cant stop thinking about you. I always believed babys were a miracle, how could I set my beliefs aside to do something so stupid. I am so very sorry and I hope God will forgive me. I should have never went. I cant stop thinking about laying on that table and wanting to yell out stop when it was already too late. I will forever be changed and I wish I could go back in time. Nobody told me I would feel this way. Lord please help and forgive me. And plz Lord take care of my baby.
Sincerely,
Heartbroken forever
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| State: North Dakota | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Mandy | Date: 7/22/2010 | | To my precious baby, who I named Kai, I am sorry for what I did to you. I take full responsibility for getting myself into a bad situation. Your father forced me to be on drugs and beat me. He threatened to kill both me and you if I were to have you, and I knew he meant it. I thought, at the time, it was for the best. Somehow I felt like aborting you was a way of protecting you from the horrible life you may have had. I never wanted to do what I did, I never thought I would have to make that choice. Your father ended up killing himself and I know he is where he belongs. He was an evil person, and I should never have taken that out on you. I will never forgive myself for what I did to you |
| State: PA | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Vanessa | Date: 7/21/2010 | Sweetness...
You would have been 13 years old this November. I was 16 and your daddy was 19. He was so horrible and verbally abusive to me. When my parents found out, they threatened to make me live with your daddy and be on my own. I wasn't strong enough to stand up for you and it is THE biggest mistake of my life! My parents threatened me into killing you. I didn't even get to see the ultrasound. I don't even know what sex you are. I ache for you everyday in my own silence. You have two sisters and one brother. I miss you all the time and always think about you...I love you my sweet innocent angel...Mommy xo |
| State: Texas | | Country: United States |
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| Name: A.G. | Date: 7/11/2010 | My Precious Baby,
words cannot describe how horrible i feel for what i have done. i think, and dream about you all of the time. at first i was pressured into abortion and i wanted no part of it because the second i found out i was pregnant with you, i loved you dearly. i told your grandma about you and she cried and kept hounding me to abort you. she finally let up after she saw you for the first time. i can remember the first time i heard your heartbeat. at the time i didnt realize how much of a blessing you were/are to me. i got to the point that it felt like the world just didnt want me to keep you. i was being selfish and i HATE myself for giving someone permission to harm you. i was/am young and stupid and i regret it with everything i am. when i made the desicion to abort you i seemed to have forgotten there were more things important than what people wouldve said or thought or how we wouldve managed. your daddy always talked down to me and was into bad things and i didnt want you to have the life that i had. but thats also very selfish of me to think because i know i could've given you a better life. i cant sleep because i think about you every night, and i cry myself to sleep knowing how alone i am without you. knowing i allowed such horrible things to happen to you. i am your mother i was supposed to protect you and keep you from harms way, but i only brought you too it. i hate that i will never know what you looked like or how you sounded or how you felt in my arms or your smell or the color of your eyes and your hair. i really am so, so very sorry for letting this happen. and i long for when we meet, because you are my first baby, and nobody can take that from me.
i love you sooo much baby.
love
mommy |
| State: nj | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Sara | Date: 7/7/2010 | My precious baby,
I love you so much and I am so sorry. I can not wait to see you one day and I will never forget you. I was so selfish and young and can not wait till I get to meet you, I wish I could take it back. I know you are in heaven with God and you will always be a part of my heart. I love you more than life itself.
Love, Mommy |
| State: TX | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Mary-Ann | Date: 7/5/2010 | My Dear GABRIEL
im writting this message for the second time, i also wrote a letter last year.Everyday i write a letter...and thats ok coz thats how i communicate with you heart to heart.
i love you my baby and i think of you every single day of my life...mommy still cries for you at times..and thats ok coz through that i stay connected to you...everyday i say a little something about you...and thats ok ...and i include you in my prayers coz u are my baby in Heaven. i know right now you are singing and praising our FATHER GOD with His Angels.
Baby i dont know where would i be if it wasnt for JESUS,where would i be if it wasnt for HIS forgiveness,Love & Mercy i just love Him...and i love Him so much because He is taking a good care of you for me...because i failed to but its ok...coz GOD understands. He knows the pain i go through day by day..He knows my thoughts..He knows my heart and my emotions...i may not have you here on earth Baby...but you remain forever in my heart ok? and i may not have you here on earth but where you are now is the best Place you can ever be and you have a wonderful and loving HEAVENLY FATHER(GOD) and i just love your Big Brother JESUS coz He healed me and is still healing me...healing the wounds of abortion....it doesnt happen instantly like some kind of "magic" NO NO NO it takes time..it takes years..it may even take a lifetime.
Baby its been 5years now going for 6years...and i am still thinking of you.i cant stop...i just cant stop because my love for you has NO END!!!please pray for Mommy to get emotionally well...and also pray for your earthly father to just get his relationship with GOD right coz right now he is going through a lot...i wrote last year in the letter that he was doing well but now he is not coz he is going through a divorce. Your little brother is growing well and im taking a good care of him and we love you both! remember also your other big brother from your dad's side the one you were supposed to come after..he was 4years when we let go of you he is now 7 or 8 yrs..also remember your little sister from your dad's side who is only 2yrs old. we all love you GABBY and one day when they are all grown ups i will tell them about you so they all be aware of their Brother (you baby) who is in Heaven...We are one big happy-family!!!
There are so many thing i dont like here on earth...but i will live my life according to God's will..so that you and I will meet againg ...and your dad and your siblings may see you and give you hugs and kisses.
on that day i will rejoice and thank GOD for re-uniting us together..
I LOVE YOU MY BABY
JESUS LOVES YOU
I LOVE YOU FOREVER
i really cant explain how much i love you but you know....you know Mommy will always love you and think of you daily..
THE LORD BLESS YOU MY ANGEL,GABRIEL
I LOVE YOU
LOVE :MAMA
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| State: Gauteng | | Country: South Africa |
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| Name: gracefishry | Date: 6/19/2010 | Dear friend
How are you doing? Hope all is well with you, l need your assistant to receive this fund of $16.5 million us dollars into your bank account which l want to use it for business investment in your country. Also this fund is money which l lends from my bank for the investment , which l will also it pay back after business so if you will assist me to receive the fund and look for a better position for me over there l think l will be very happy. Please l will need your feedback ok:
grace.fishery@gmail.com
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| State: centra | | Country: Ghana |
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| Name: Latoya | Date: 6/13/2010 | I come today with a message of hope and healing. I mourn the lives of 3 of my siblings that I never got to meet....I was the only survivor...the only one of my mother's children to make it to planet earth at 2 lbs and 14 oz. Walking in my mother's footstep, I too can add the name murderer to my resume, having participated in the death sentence of two of my unborn children. My heart is healed, but one never forgets this grim fact. I pray for healing for anyone who is reading this message. I pray that you know that our Father God through the redemptive power of His love may heal any heart that is broken as you read these words.
The wages of sin are death. Please do not separate yourself from God's love, and let not the opinions of self or this world influence you to make a decision to have an abortion if you're contemplating one. You do not want to curse your bloodline and allow this curse to journey to future generations. Your children and grandchildren should be able to live freely without the curses of former generations.
Today, 12 years after both of my abortions, I now teach a message of wholeness and purity to college students. Make the best decision, choose life always ! God will grace you and provide in all situations. He always makes all things work together for His good for those who love Him and are called according to His purposes. |
| State: GA | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Hannah | Date: 5/31/2010 | To My Sweet Charlotte,
A year ago your Dad and I made the decision to let you go; it pains me everyday. When I found out I was pregnant I was so happy...but it wasn't the right time. I wish so much that you would have happened to us a couple years later. We think about you everyday and miss you so much. I wish that I could hold you and tell you how much I love you. I will never forget you. I promise that your Dad and I will have a beautiful garden for you some day when we have enough money to buy a house. I love you forever and always beautiful girl.
Love,
Mom |
| State: MI | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Lane | Date: 4/29/2010 | | I made the biggest mistake of my life 21yrs. ago. My life was already numb, because my father had abandoned us for another woman. I ran to the first guy who said he loved me. That was your dad. Not to make excuses, I was emotionally disturbed at the time. I had no feelings left by the time I became pregnant with you. My family was shattered. I believe you were a boy, as the nurse showed my the ultrasound that day. She said "he's sucking his thumb". I'll never forget seeing you....yes, there was a voice that said "run"....run out as fast as you can. But it was in secrecy, and there was no way out for me. I was a coward! I hate myself for that. I'll never get over that pain as long as I live! I know God loves me, and he calls me by name. He has forgiven me. I ask for your forgiveness as well. I long to hold you one day my sweet baby boy. ~mom |
| State: Wa | | Country: United States |
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| Name: lynn | Date: 4/21/2010 | | In 1985 I had an abortion and it crushed me. Later I turned to drugs and alcohol and ended up having a second abortion. In 1988 I became pregnant and had chicken pox in first trimester and was told by well meaning people that an abortion would be the best. 3 Abortions, 3 lives thrown away. I lived in despair and darkness so long, couldn't look at myself in the mirror. I met Jesus Christ and it wasn't until then that I had the courage to really look at abortion and what it does to women and children. There is hope and healing for us. I don't forget what I have done, I think about it daily, but I walk in forgiveness today. Love and forgiveness are available to all who put their trust in the Lord. To my three in heaven, I know you forgive me and I know I will meet you someday. I love you. |
| State: NV | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Alexis | Date: 4/18/2010 | My Sweet little Pumpkin,
You would be turning 1 years old this coming Wednesday, April 21st 2010. I miss you every day. I'm sorry I chose your father over you. If I had it to do over, I would have chosen your life over his in a heartbeat. If I had it to do over again I would have chosen your life over mine in a heartbeat. I look at your ultrasound, and I look at the swab of blood I kept from the abortion, and I grieve you with uter agony. My baby boy, you would be having your very first birthday party this week. I was never happier, nor healthier than when I was pregnant with you. You were perfect, and I miss you desperately. I didn't just let them get rid of you, I let them get rid of me too. A large piece of me died along with you that day. Although I am greatful that your father will never ruin your life as he has everyone elses in his path, I mourn you, and I mourn the spark within myself that was extinguished along with your life's flame. God willing you're a precious little cherub angel, and one day we shall meet in Heaven.
I'll love you for all eternity,
Mama |
| State: CA | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Brigid | Date: 4/18/2010 | | My dear child I take life away from you at 9 weeks. The moment I was told I was pregnant my life filled with joy! Unfortunately, your father insisted it wasn't time for him to become a father. He would threaten me and even bought me the pills. God knows I didn't want to abort you! I love you and please forgive me. This pain is killing me everyday as I regret what I did to you. I wish you were still in me, you would of been born November 16 2010. You will forever be in my prayers and I hope to meet you someday. Please lord FORGIVE me. My life will never be the same. |
| State: Florida | | Country: Netherlands |
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| Name: Bree | Date: 4/9/2010 | | I did not protect you better and I let others pressure me to let you go. I will never forget you my precious child. Please forgive me. |
| State: North Carolina | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Trevor | Date: 4/7/2010 | to our baby,
I am so sorry for what i have done to you, i never even gave you a chance. we were so young, and so scared, and we made a mistake. i try not to think about it, because it makes me feel so horrible, and especially for what it has done to your mother. i never wanted to hurt either of you. and i don't think i can ever forgive my self for my young, ignorant choice. after all, it was something that i pushed on your mom. and i am so sorry. you never deserved to go. you should have had your chance to live your life, and will regret taking that from you for the rest of my life, above all, i prey that you aren't mad at your mother, and i prey that god help guide her through this dark place in her life. people can be so harsh, and nobody, especially your mommy deserves it. she is an amazing person, and i know that she will always love you. |
| State: Ca | | Country: United States |
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| Name: jennifer | Date: 4/3/2010 | | To my beautiful baby girl,,,,i wasn't sure but I just know you are a girl and I named you mikayla lynn...I wanted you so so much. The more days that went by the more scared I became. I was dating amarried man that I thought I loved for a year. He said he wanted me to have an abortion as it was gonna ruin his life,i was stupid, alone, and vulnerable. I should have never ever listen to him...instead my life is ruined. I think of you everyday. You would have been born in 8 weeks on June 12, 2010. Ilong to hold you in my arms and hear your cry, laugheter and see your smiling face. Please forgive me, asi still have not forgiven myself. You have a 6year old sister that would have wanted you sp much, and she longs for you as wejj. I love you Makaylalynn |
| State: mn | | Country: United States |
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| Name: Elizabeth | Date: 3/31/2010 | | 12 days ago I found out I was pregnant with you, and 3 days later I let you go forever. I saw your picture and your heart beating and I knew right then and there I should have walked out of the room. I am very sorry for any pain that I caused to you and I hope to meet you some day. I can't even look at myself and not be angry for what I have done. I am your Mommy and I was suppose to make sure you stayed safe. Not a day will go by where I won't think of you. R.I.P my sweet child. |
| State: FL | | Country: United States |
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Abortion Recovery InterNational, Inc. strongly encourages individuals affected by abortion to have completed an abortion recovery program PRIOR to involving themselves in the counseling of others; legal, research, speaking or activism opportunity.
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